Hello, I’m Craig Constantine.

We talk every day without thinking much about it. But what makes a conversation land? Why do some questions open doors while others close them? How does understanding happen in the space between people?

Open + Curious explores the art of conversation—through essays and the ongoing work of paying attention to how dialogue actually works.

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  • The Resonance Test

    The Resonance Test

    Someone reconnected with Mary Chan after a long silence—not to catch up, just to ask a favor. The problem isn’t asking. The problem is that asking reveals what was never there. The relationships worth having are the ones where the conversation never really stops. Everything else is just networking—mutual extraction with better manners. More →

  • Generosity Without The Ledger

    Generosity Without The Ledger

    Robin Waite helped direct six hundred lost people at an event—dumped his coat and started helping, though he wasn’t staff. This led to opportunities worth hundreds of thousands. But he’s clear: “The moment I make it about me and my mortgage, it’s gone.” People sense when you’re keeping a ledger. You can’t strategize your way… More →

  • When Control Kills the Conversation

    When Control Kills the Conversation

    Jeff Revilla runs a podcast theater and has noticed a pattern: the most prepared hosts struggle. They’ve written monologues and scripted jokes—and it bombs. They’re not in the moment. Control optimizes against the spontaneity that makes conversation alive. The audience can sense when someone is genuinely responding versus executing a plan. Structure helps, but scripting… More →

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Open + Curious is about discovering what better means for your conversations—not techniques or scripts, but the kind of listening and curiosity that makes real connection possible.

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